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Dear Abby | Wife shies away from nudist lifestyle
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Posted: Sep 2, 2009

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DEAR ABBY: My husband, ?Adam,? and I bought a lovely, secluded home in the country. We have no children, and our nearest neighbor is a half-mile away. Now it seems like my husband plans to spend the rest of his life in the nude. He loves it and often tells me how ?relaxing? it feels. I must admit his temperament has improved.

Please don?t get me wrong ? I?m not a prude. But Adam goes for days on end without wearing a stitch unless we?re going out or someone is coming over. He works in the yard, cuts the grass, hikes in our woods naked ? and has a head-to-toe golden tan.

I don?t mind seeing my husband in the buff. He?s clean and well-groomed and nearly as trim as when we first married. (We both are.) My problem is, Adam is constantly after me to join him. I admire his nerve, but just can?t bring myself to go outdoors with nothing on, despite the privacy. My biggest hang-up is fear of getting caught.

Last month, Adam was mowing the lawn and didn?t hear the UPS truck come down our long driveway. Caught ?red-handed,? he nonchalantly signed for the package, wished the driver a good day and went back to work. The driver winked and gave me a thumbs-up as he drove away.

Should I give in to Adam?s request and give his nude lifestyle a try? I know it would mean a lot to him. I told him I?d follow your advice. ? ?Eve? in Upstate New York

DEAR ?EVE?: I?m not opposed to it. From everything I have read, and from readers? testimonials, the naturalist lifestyle is healthy and upbeat, so give it a try. Just be sure to wear sunscreen.

P.S. By December, your problem should no longer be a problem.
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